Let’s face it; we all have a hot friend of the opposite sex that we’d love to sleep with. You think about it sometimes, about how it would work out and you’d end up dating or just be friends with benefits.
Stop those thoughts. Trying to sleep with your friends is a terrible idea. Here’s why.
You and your friends are friends for a reason(s). You get along well, think similar ways, have plenty of things in common, and have a good time when you hangout together.
You’ve created many memories and done tons of fun stuff together. If you were ever going to sleep with them, it would’ve developed from a friendship and become a relationship via those experiences.
It didn’t work out that way for you. Sucks, but there’s nothing you can do about it, honestly.
If you tried to hookup with a good friend of yours, you’re probably (like a 98% chance) going to get denied access to their reproductive organs. If you were ever going to sleep together, it would’ve happened a long time ago.
If you try to get with them and they say no (which they will) your friendship is now totally compromised. You’ll never, ever, be able to be friends like you were before you could control the feelings in your pants region.
Let’s say that a miracle occurs and they agree to get down with you. What does that mean for your friendship? Utter confusion for both parties ensues.
You might be wondering if you’ll still be friends, or develop a fwb deal, or even start dating each other. If you have sex with them, then you’re both attracted to each other, for the most part.
So what does that mean for the both of you? What are they thinking?
If you sleep with your friend, it’s going to go one of two ways either you keep sleeping together or you never do it again, and it’s something that both of you will never speak of or acknowledge.
But was sleeping with them worth possibly ruining a great friendship? Or was it worth the chance to create something more?
I don’t think sleeping with them once is worth either result. It’s a huge gamble (if you even get that far, which you won’t) that isn’t worth giving up a friend.
If you want to sleep with someone you know, ask your friends if they know anyone who’d be down. You save a friendship, and get what you want.
Your friends are your friends for a reason. If anything more was ever going to happen between the two of you, it would’ve happened a while ago.
If you sleep with them just once, would it be worth all the awkward tension between you? Stay comfortable in your friendship and just bang or have casual sex with other people.
“You can pick your friends, you can pick your nose, but you can’t pick your friend’s nose”. I think you get the point.
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